How to make couples become a lifetime lover?

Upper class society in the United States, 80% of households are not divorced, even if another 20% of divorced families, their marriage period is not more than 10 years ago. However, the opposite of our country, our country is the upper class people are often high divorce rate, because the money, that his wife is not pretty, not attractive, and on the change. Alas! So now we come to share an issue: how to make the couple a lifetime lover. Want to make about such a simple life in China spend a couple ...

 
First, a successful person, they often have the following qualities:
1, honesty, integrity, educated
2, a very good social skills
3, good ideas
4, the support of a spouse
5, continued to work hard

 
Second, the values of happiness. Happiness comes from balance, and only family harmony, in order to have better career development. That is family first, career second. If you want happiness need to address three types of human relationships: 1, and interpersonal relationships; 2, the relationship between man and nature; 3, the relationship between man and the spiritual world

 
Third, the factors that affect marriage

 
1, loyalty

 
2, responsibility.
There is a story embodies the meaning of responsibility. A company's CEO, is a very successful man. One day, his wife, a car accident, became a vegetable. He is no longer working, every day accompany his wife to take care of his wife. Chairman and CEO to find and talk to him, the chairman said that the name of the company to find a few nannies to take care of his wife throughout the day, so that CEO can have more time to take into account the company. Strongly opposed CEO and chairman, said: "She is a vegetable, and even if you do not know the daily care of her, she did not know who you are, and you take care of a nanny is no difference." But the CEO said the sentence: "When she did not know who I am, I want to know who she is."

 
3, thoughtful
Marriage are two different life background, the combination of the two families, so there has to be a combination of some of the problems. Then both sides can accept each other's advantages but also to accept each other's shortcomings.
How to thoughtful, requires three areas: understanding, caring, respected.
A man this life is to "face" and live life a woman is to "love" and live. If you understand this, respected no longer difficult.

 
4, the competent
A woman in need of financial independence. Self-reliance, self-reliance. Saying that good "is the world's most unreliable man's shoulder." And sisters, remember this phrase it.
Women can not remember the tone of command to command your husband. The adaptability of man to believe a woman should not teach your wife to do things, over time, she will develop a dependency.

 
5, full support to each other
Fourth, marriage is in need, the needs of men and women are different, according to the World authoritative statistics, each of the five needs of men and women, and that there are five levels of demand relations.

 
Five men needs:
The first: sexual gratification.
Second place: playing to a
This needs to reflect, and common interests, common language. Such as the husband said that today want to go fishing, his wife would soon wear sports shoes, pick up the fishing rod off. If the wife can accompany her husband to play all of his favorite projects, then he will look for other playmates it? Even went to, he will think of his wife at home.

 
Third place: wife attractive.
Men are visual to the love and life, women are feeling with their hearing and to love and life.
Now many women are still in bed when her husband the morning to a good makeup, put on beautiful clothes and went out. When her husband came home at night, etc., his wife already unloading good makeup, wear their own dirty pajamas watching TV in the house. This husband is very poor, do not see the most beautiful side of his wife, when her husband's friend said, "Your wife is so pretty," her husband would be very surprised, because he did not seen his wife nicely. So, many women should pay attention to their underwear, the mall's high-end lingerie counter pajamas, from dozens to tens of thousands have. Why is there such a high price underwear it? Wear it inside my coat, no one can see, why so expensive? Sisters want to think about this issue.

 
Fourth place: wife, mother.
For a man, he wants his wife at home taking care of babies and families. But this is only the fourth man needs. So sisters, do not think you're married to blindly go for the family and children to pay, we need not a nanny her husband. Think of it the wife abandoned by her husband, a large part of them is dedicated to the family in paying for the child to her husband, but they been abandoned, divorced by their husband will be very surprised, "Why should I order The family paid so much, you will abandon me? "that is, you do not know man, you do not know what a man needs, if they know the man's former sister several demands, will be blindly pay?

 
Fifth place: great admiration for their
A wife said to her husband "my husband is really smart." "My husband, you're ill." Such praise, but another wife Quedui husband said: "You see people Li's husband, multi-talented, ah, earn more wages , look you, a wimp. "As a man, you will like what wife?
The needs of men had finished, need careful note of good sisters. The following women talk about the needs of her husband who needs to or not married, the boys remember better.

 
Five of Ms. requirements:
First: warmth, romance, love
Women rely on hearing and feeling love and life, and because of that, will someone says "when a woman in love, IQ equal to zero." This sentence does not mean that we do when there is no intelligence, and not to judge and analyze, but rather that we women will listen to a man some of the "rhetoric" will to believe in every man for himself and create a surprise. Thus giving rise to a lot of pretty girl, married her husband, a rather ugly situation.
If you want your wife to love you, then, as a man, you first need to do is this.

 
Second place: talk (commonly known as: nagging)
Woman's nature is nagging. When a woman nagging, men often feel very tired all sense of time. If you want to do better on when not heard, left ear, right ear out. If a man doing a good job, it will say "Hello bothersome, nagging what ah, this thing, you say a lot of times," a woman so white it hurts the heart.

 
Talk not only reflected in the nagging, but also can be reflected in all aspects of life. When the job goes wrong when the wife will work as her husband talk to discontent, when the good man should understand your feeling of sympathy passed to her, tell him you understand, help her analysis, and enlighten her. But if a wife said to her husband When things work, but to hear her husband say, "You have old units do, do, and I said, I do not want to hear." Men, do you know your wife at this time how sad you ? And so, the communication between husband and wife, how to reflect it?

 
Third place: loyal, honest
Men do not lie. If you spread a lie, a woman will be suspicious of all of you said before.
Fourth place: economic support.
Fifth place: the family's commitment to
Woman needs a man full of promise. Such as the husband promised to accompany his wife to go shopping, but to the mall, the husband found a place that "you teach it, I'm here for you." This time his wife will be very happy, did not come at the time, her husband's commitment is "I will accompany you to go shopping, buy clothes," but to the mall to become "I'll accompany you to the mall, I layer waiting for you, you teach. " This is not a commitment to become a complete.
In fact, to accompany his wife when the man from the real mortar finished shopping, you will find that men tend to take the bag of clothes, or mostly men, this is a woman for a complete commitment to her husband as a reward.

 
Fifth, marriage advice
1, with positive evidence to tell him (her) "I love you."
2, often give small gifts. These gifts do not necessarily require very affordable, to have that feeling.
3, where his (her)
4, for his (her) to do something
A mother for her children to do many things, not asking for anything. Both husband and wife should be treated like a child, like her mother's state of mind to do something for each other
5, touching and sexual
Men often tend to do is to point 5 above, and women need men to do it is precisely the first four points.

 
Sixth, the two concepts of marriage
1, is operating out of the happiness of marriage, just as the same business to worry about business.
2, men need to possess, and women need is a feeling.