People want to enjoy access to a spouse, but if heard more than three sentences, it will inevitably feel in their heart status, value and image plummeted, but also by those who jump to judge, "label" of the discourse of the injury.
Since the marriage, it should carefully treat the other half. Some moved, then you can say that some hurtful words never said. So, between husband and wife, which would most moving, and which words they most hurt it?
Hong Kong Christian Women's Club Family Wellness Centre in December 2007 to January 2008, the total of 1114 married men and women interviewed were between husband and wife Ping Chu and the destruction of the three most moving emotional speech and behavior, hope This reminds couples pay more attention to their words and actions in the impact of a spouse, and learn the words to say to promote emotional, more emotional interaction to help.
Survey shows that 60.1% of respondents would "no matter what you, I'll be here", that is, as "the most moving words list" in the first place, and "to marry you, I feel very happy," "you is very important to me, "together, topped the first three. This result reflects both the husband or wife, is most eager to get the support of each other forever and hope to be accepted in marriage, affirmation and attention, is very concerned with their own place in the hearts of their spouses.
People unexpectedly, the most moving action, even a simple expression of love rich partner. "To do something you already said, or even forget their own little things," "affectionate kiss or hug you" and "special arrangements to spend time with you", the top three. "Buy a house" or "will give you the financial power", but rank is not high. This reflects the couple get along, the most in need are often the concern and care partners, and should be made at the right time, said.
As for the "destruction of the three most emotional speech", 58.5% chose the "I'm married (marry) the wrong you"; "You look at other people, much better than you" and "I put up with for a long time, you always This "followed. People want to enjoy access to a spouse, but if heard more than three sentences, it will inevitably feel in their heart status, value and image plummeted, but also by those who jump to judge, "label" of the discourse of the injury. The behavior of the most emotional damage, "publicly humiliated you," "sent you in public places" and "ignore" points out three.
Li Wenshan Supervisor of the Centre said the survey reflects the couple to get along with each other in the most important, is not a matter of giving, but the spouse's care, respect and attention. She suggested that under the first couple of cool in the heat of the moment and reflect on their behavior, the opportunity to find each other, said "sorry", so to understand each other before their place is also not rational, and good as ever is not difficult.
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