When you love a man, and want to marry him, you must be mentally prepared, you do not just get married with him, you are in with his lifestyle and family background and social context of marriage. To clear your face is not an individual man, but his family environment and social interactions that a group of people behind. In addition you are still married life under the pressure of daily necessities. So the kind of love the sweet sense of marriage may gradually disappear, so many women in the marriage will have some abnormal psychology.
Reverse psychology. The role of the so-called reverse psychology is the same thing at the individuals received more than the individual sensory threshold, so that the individual sensory saturation produced a contrary experience.
Performance: the more things get more want, what more they want more exposure can not be contacted. Once obtained, access to, and do not cherish the. The greater the resistance to the outside world, the more obstacles, the stronger the rebellious, the pursuit of the more powerful. Once the real integration, less than the original purpose of that sense of urgency and rivalry also disappeared.
Psychological gap. Refers to the distance between the ideal and the reality of the imbalance caused by the heart. Psychologists listed in a formula: happiness = reality - look forward to. It expresses the mean, the reality depends on the happiness difference between values and expectations. When the difference is positive, then the happiness, joy; when the difference is zero, life seemed more stable; when the difference is negative, you will feel despair.
Marriage to a simple emotional relationships between the sexes evolved interdependence between the survival, when used to love coffee shops, restaurants, tearooms, and now it is the sound of pots and pans clank. Survival also brought in the common life of the building based on new relationships, such as mother and wife, father and son, sister and wife and other relations between, all this makes the reality of the scores of greatly reduced with the expected value of not less than the distance between one, people have a psychological gap, feel lost and disappointed.
Mysterious disappearance. Mystery constitute an important factor in emotional gravity, it gives rise like smoke and mirrors, moon-like hazy beauty of the water, triggering the imagination of lovers delight after the separation, and of great interest to explore each other's character answers.
Contact between lovers is intermittent, loose, time and distance in space, men and women tend to make love is the other side idealized perfection. Almost every day from home and husband and wife live together, when the contact is continuous, close, both very real to show the other face of the original in order to obtain favor and cover up the other shortcomings exposed, vulnerable alternate dissatisfied .
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