Ten couples in marriage life should not be

First, not men outside the women inside
Dual-career families are now the majority of time at home, the couple is almost equal. Housework by the woman as if the whole, the wife is bound to be too tired. Men and women should equally share the cooking and taking care of their children and so on. Husband should understand that the true people's minds today, "man", it is well outside of work, domestic well homemaker, hardness and softness of the man.

 
Second, should not be quick to mention the divorce
After marriage, husband and wife bicker quarrel is common. The problem is to correctly deal with these contradictions, the major issues to minor ones had. Friction, avoid quick to mention divorce, say in the future will be taken to avoid the vicious words of his regret, not the other person a grudge. You know, husband or wife had difficulties and misfortune, should depend on each other mutual support, through the most difficult stage, the husband and wife relationship will be more solid, more sweet.

 
Third, not "home", "husband" share Taiqing
Both husband and wife is not a simple individual, each will have their own family and social relations, more people will inevitably give rise to various situations. Then the couple should be mutual understanding and to each other are thinking, worry the other needs, such feelings will be more the more firmly tied. One needs help at home, the other should try to support my son.

 
Fourth, should not be based in their own habits
After marriage, the couple will have some bad habits exposed: toothpaste packed crooked, bed with soot, throw dirty socks and so on. For these, both sides must learn to tolerate and accommodate as much as possible, do not blindly blame each other. Especially the wife, the husband does not have to do according to his own way, to remind him that the next note on the line.

 
Fifth, should not go home get a flat
Both husband and wife should not vent outside the home unpleasant emotions, because anger will cause the whole family unhappy. This is not to say that people on the outside without telling his family have been wronged, but should find a suitable time to pour my heart out to the other side of the depressed. Whether husband or wife, this time should be to encourage or persuade a moderate attitude to each other, help each other as soon as possible to eliminate the hearts of depression. Should believe things will be hard to over time and the past.

 
Six, not on economic issues "mouthpiece"
How to spend money is not a trivial matter, there are not many couples because of money and. People spend money before the marriage is basically what they say goes, to develop the "independent" of the habit. Marriage may be necessary to pay attention, to have the concept of family, something to spend together to discuss a reasonable arrangement. Economic conditions are not well-off in the family when the couple should have self-control, do not own decisions and buying them things.

 
Seven, should not face the past always wanted to, "maybe ... ..."
With the rift between husband and wife, should not always think in the mind "may" word: "Perhaps I will be happy with another person to marry more," "Maybe it's better I do not get married," "Maybe we ... ...." These "may" are negative thoughts, the more this talent think things will worsen. The couple should be more than happy memories of when dealing with time, the only way to make people happy without knowing it.

 
Eight, not without reason, or sleeping out Chigui
The current number of families are working parents, often to dinner together. Intense pace of work and life to share the feelings of the time the couple have rarely, if one further reason Chigui even live outside, the more will add to anxiety and other psychological troubles. This passage of time, the feelings between husband and wife will become "a river without water", it is easy dry.

 
September, not in front of their children are "Jieduan"
This approach will seriously affect the other's self-esteem. A long time, the couple's relationship can verge of collapse. More seriously, the child would therefore look down upon their own parents, as well as the disintegration of the family occurred in spirit.

 
Ten, should not be suspicious of each other for no reason
If the trust is the foundation of love between husband and wife, then the suspicion is the love worms. If the husband or wife due to heterosexual contact and suspicious for no reason, and even developed to monitor each other's practices, and family stability of marital relations are all harmful to one's interest.